January 16, 2012

Tebow (Part 2): How to Lose a Game without Losing Your Testimony

Well … the Denver Broncos lost on Saturday.

It was a decisive loss (45-10), as the New England Patriots took a quick lead and never looked back.

As a football fan, I was admittedly a bit disappointed, even though the Tebow-led Broncos made it much farther this season than any analyst ever thought possible.

However, as a Christian, I was pleased with one particular aspect of Denver’s loss: the way Tim Tebow handled himself after the game.

Last Thursday, I wrote an article in which I tried to separate Tim Tebow – the person, from Tim Tebow – the cultural phenomenon. I did my best to affirm Tim as an individual, while also expressing some concerns about the media-driven hype that surrounds him.

From all I know of him, Tim Tebow, the person, is a man of character, conviction, and compassion. The cultural phenomenon (or “Tebow-Mania” as I called it) is the popular hype that has centered on the young quarterback’s unique season this year.

After defeating the Pittsburgh Steelers, Tebow-Mania was running at its peak level last week, and probably the number one question being asked was, Does God give supernatural assistance to Tim Tebow to help him win big football games?

The obvious follow up question was, What will happen if he loses?

When the Broncos failed to mount another “miraculous” comeback on Saturday, it was inevitable that someone in the media would raise that issue. It didn’t take long. In the press conference after the game, one reporter cut right to the chase:

There’s been a lot of talk this year about faith and winning. As Solomon said, ‘Victory belongs to the Lord.’ What about losing? How do you make sense of what’s the end of your season?

So how would Tim Tebow, the person, respond to a question that clearly highlighted one of the main theological misconceptions surrounding Tim Tebow, the cultural phenomenon?

I thought the Denver quarterback’s response was excellent and worth noting. He said this:

Well, something I pray before games, during games, and after games is regardless whether I win, whether I lose, whether I’m the hero or the goat — it doesn’t matter — that I still honor the Lord and give Him the glory because He’s deserving of it. And just like my effort shouldn’t change, neither should that. So that’s how I try to approach it. Sometimes even in a loss you can honor Him more. And so, for me I just pray that my character and who I am doesn’t change. Even though you can be dejected, you can still feel hurt, you can be disappointed; but you can still honor the Lord with how you handle things.

For a professional athlete who just lost the biggest game of his pro-football career in a landslide defeat on a national stage, that was an admirable response. He didn’t cry, as though football were more important than it really is. He didn’t blame his teammates or his coaches. He didn’t make excuses. He didn’t fault God or say something silly about not having enough faith. Instead, he gave an answer that was theologically sound and inherently God-honoring. In essence, Tim was telling the media that they were missing the point: Christianity is not about winning football games; it’s about honoring the Lord in every situation, even when you lose the football game.

His answer flew in the face of the theologically-inaccurate media hype. It was Tim Tebow, the person, providing correction to a misconception fueled by the cultural phenomenon.

Since, in my previous article, I suggested that perhaps Tim Tebow could do more to correct the popular misconceptions the media buzz has created, I wanted to be quick to applaud what I thought was a job well done.

In the end, losing a football game (even in the playoffs) is nothing compared to losing one’s testimony. I’m thankful Tim Tebow didn’t forfeit his on Saturday. In fact, when it came to winning respect and maintaining dignity in the midst of defeat, I thought he excelled.

I, for one, believe the Lord was glorified by his response. And that’s something I can celebrate — even if my beloved Broncos lost the game.

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Update: For those who read Rick Holland’s article last week about Tim Tebow, be sure to see his follow up post: “If I were Tim Tebow’s Pastor (Part 2)”.

in Evangelicalism with 22 Comments
  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Marian-Winans/1243354581 Marian Winans

    AMEN!! Great article! I just posted this to my FB Wall!

  • http://www.clintarcher.com/ Clint

    Great post, Nate. You’re the most edifying armchair quarterback I know.

  • http://www.clintarcher.com/ Clint

    Great post, Nate. You’re the most edifying armchair quarterback I know.

  • http://thecripplegate.com Jesse Johnson

    Watching the Broncos is something I can rarely do, because (as a fan) it challenges my sanctification. So I am thankful for your helpful summary of the only highlight from the game that matters.

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  • Bill MCKenna

    Tim is a testimony for all of us, athlete or non-athlete as to how to handle adversity in our lives. In the world of sports there are many other fine Christian players like Drew Brees who have managed to walk the walk and be an example for young people to follow as a role model. I pray that God will continue to provide Tim and other Christian athletes the strength and wisdom to glorify God in their lives.

  • Margaretpearl

    Amen! This is why I am a fan of Tebow! My prayer is that we would all be willing to follow his example and praise Our Lord and Savior in all situations.

  • Mary Korf

    Excellent. My first response to hearing Tebow’s interview on KOA (Denver) was “no blame, no shame.” It’s a mixed bag–disappointment for the Broncos but joy for how God was glorified.

  • Karl Heitman

    Thanks for this, Nate. Perhaps this is why so many Christians, like me, have jumped on the Tebow bandwagon…because he’s genuine. So maybe, just maybe, Timmy T. didn’t intend to take Phil. 4:13 out of context after all? :-)

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  • B ettyHogan

    Thanks for this post about Tim Tebow. He is a great testimoney for us all. Betty Hogan,

  • Betty Hogan

    Thanks for sharing Tim’s testimoney, he is an example for us all. Betty Hogan

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  • Ddschultz54

    Thank you for a great article. I have prayed this entire season for Tim Tebow to keep his testimony despite what the world is throwing at him – so that God would be honored. I would love to know how large the nationwide web of unknown prayer support this man is as he has stepped into a world of media hype that can and has changed many in sports. I know our household is one that provides this support.

  • Kyle Swanson

    A.men.

  • Rachel

    When I heard that the Broncos got shellacked I immediately started praying that Tebow would handle it in a way that would honor God, and I’m glad to hear he did. Thanks for your post.

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  • Anonymous

    The more I get to know Tim Tebow, the more I realize he (and his faith) are for real. Glad that the media outlets are showing his responses from both the wins and the losses.

    I suggest everyone read his autobiography…what a great testimony for the Lord. I continue to pray that Lord will continue to give Tebow the strength to maintain his awesome testimony for the Lord in such a hostile environment.

    Thanks for the update!!!

  • http://www.facebook.com/pkooistra Phil Kooistra

    Great Article Nate! Celebrity Christianity is a strange thing in our culture… I pray that Tebow can keep his eyes on the humble example of Jesus.

  • Jeffrey Hoffan

    This is Just a story about the man Tebow. The testimony is to God and how He makes a difference in the lives of those who trust Him in all things; even loosing. Tebow is certainly a man of integrity, the measure of a man. But let’s all remember that this is testimony to God, not to any man.

  • Aboveground_inc

    Im a christian, and I even giggled when he lost. Im actually happy he lost. Its called being humble. I had my patriots jersey and I made sure I tebowed and prayed after the game how thankful I was. Even my church wanted him to lose. Good does listen to prayers thats for sure!

  • Heimfam9

    Here, here! Excellent analysis! I dare say that Tebow puts a smile on the Lord’s face!